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Is Baneful Magick Ever Ethical? Let’s Talk About It.
Baneful magick is one of those topics—constantly sparking debates in the online witchcraft spaces. If you’ve spent even a few minutes in a Facebook group or scrolling through Witchtok, you’ve probably seen it: endless threads dissecting whether it’s okay to hex someone, curse an abuser, or use baneful magick as a tool for justice. And let’s be real—over the past two weeks, with everything happening politically in the U.S., this discussion has been reignited fiercely across the collective.
But beneath all the noise, one burning question remains: Is it ever ethical to throw baneful magick? Let’s break it down.
What Is Baneful Magick, Really?
Let’s start by defining what we’re actually talking about. Baneful magick isn’t inherently “evil” or “dark.” It’s simply magick with an intent to cause disruption, harm, or reversal—often to protect oneself, demand justice, or balance an energetic scale that’s been thrown off.
Baneful magick has existed in nearly every culture for centuries. It wasn’t always about “being petty” or “mean”; for some it was survival. From curse tablets in Ancient Greece to protective hexes in Hoodoo traditions, baneful magick was a way for people to fight back when they had no other options.
And that’s the key: when they had no other options. And who am I to butt my head in and dictate that for someone else?
Baneful Magick as Protection and Justice
For many, baneful magick isn’t about revenge—it’s about survival. If someone is actively harming you, whether physically, emotionally, or energetically, baneful magick can be a way to reclaim power and establish boundaries. This isn’t about “sending bad vibes” to your ex for breaking up with you—it’s about protecting yourself from actual harm or systemic injustice. And once again, who the hell am I to dictate that for someone else?
Historically, baneful magick has often been tied to justice. For example:
In Hoodoo, baneful work was (and still is) a means for Black practitioners to seek justice in the face of oppression.
In Ancient Egypt, curses were used to deter grave robbers and protect sacred sites.
In European folk traditions, witches placed hexes on those who brought harm to their families or communities.
This isn’t about petty squabbles; it’s about protecting what matters. Once again, I cannot discern that for someone else.
So, Is It Ethical?
The answer is complicated. Ethics in magick are personal. What one witch deems justifiable, another might see as crossing a line. Here’s how to approach the question:
Check Your Intentions:
Are you acting from a place of survival, justice, or protection? Or are you reacting impulsively out of anger or ego? Intent matters.Weigh the Consequences:
Baneful magick has ripple effects. Are you prepared for potential blowback? Can you handle the emotional and energetic weight of your actions?Exhaust Mundane Options:
Magick shouldn’t be your first response to conflict. Have you tried mundane solutions? Baneful magick is a tool of last resort—not your first line of defense.Know the Stakes:
If you’re cursing someone, you’re entering an energetic exchange. Are you prepared to follow through and protect yourself if necessary?
Is It Worth Your Time, Energy, and Resources?
Before you even consider baneful magick, ask yourself this: is the situation—or the person—worth your time, supplies, and energy? Because magick is work. Baneful magick in particular requires focused intention, energetic preparation, and potentially expensive or rare ingredients. Are you really going to spend all that effort on someone who isn’t significant in your life?
If it’s a petty grudge or fleeting anger, the answer is probably no. Your energy is sacred, and wasting it on insignificant people or minor conflicts drains your power. Save your fire for when it truly matter. And once again, no one can determine that but you… And you can’t determine that for anyone else.
You Don’t Know Who’s Protecting Them
This is a critical point that many beginners overlook. When you throw baneful magick, you’re not just engaging with the individual—you’re engaging with their spiritual ecosystem. You don’t know who or what is protecting them.
Ancestral Protection:
Some folks have ancestors fiercely guarding their bloodline. Fuck with the wrong person and you might unintentionally provoke their ancestral spirits. Are you prepared for the potential retaliation from a realm you can’t fully see?Spiritual Authority:
Some individuals carry significant spiritual authority on other planes. They may have deities, spirits, or other powerful allies backing them. Magick directed at them could backfire spectacularly if their protectors decide to respond in kind.Seasoned Practitioners:
Not everyone you encounter is a novice. Some witches have years of experience and solid protection magick in place. Their wards might not just block your magick—they could send it hurtling back at you with added force. Are you equipped to handle that kind of lash back?
If you don’t know who you’re dealing with or their spiritual defenses, you might find yourself in over your head.
Protection, Cleansing, and Banishing: The Foundation You Need
If you’re thinking about diving into baneful work, let’s be clear—you must have a strong foundation in protection magick, cleansing, and banishing first. Think of it this way: you wouldn’t start playing with fire if you didn’t know how to put it out, right? The same principle applies here.
Protection Magick: Learn to shield yourself energetically before throwing baneful work. Wards, talismans, and energy shielding aren’t optional—they’re essential.
Cleansing: Baneful magick leaves energetic residue, and if you’re not cleansing regularly, you’re just letting that energy linger in your space.
Banishing: After you throw, you banish. Always. This cuts the energetic connection and can help prevent blowback from finding its way back to you.
Skipping these steps? You’re not ready for baneful magick. Period.
Why Baneful Magick Still Belongs in Witchcraft
The modern witchcraft community is often quick to dismiss baneful magick as unethical or unnecessary. But that mindset ignores the historical and cultural significance of baneful practices. It also assumes that everyone has access to justice through mundane means—which is not the case for many marginalized individuals.
Baneful magick isn’t inherently “bad.” It’s a tool, and like any tool, its morality depends on how it’s used. When wielded responsibly and with purpose, baneful magick can protect, restore balance, and create justice where none existed.
Final Thoughts
So, is baneful magick ever ethical? That’s up to you. But if you choose to walk that path, do so with intention, responsibility, and the knowledge that you’re stepping into a practice that’s as old as witchcraft itself. Learn your protections. Master your cleansing. Build your wards.
Above all, make sure your actions align with your values. I personally think everyone needs to study and understand it, for you never know when you may need to use it. And you also may need to understand how to handle things if someone tosses shit your way.
Baneful magick isn’t about harm for harm’s sake. It’s about empowerment, survival, and sometimes, reclaiming the power others tried to take from you. When used wisely, it can be a transformative force—and that’s a truth worth embracing.